Every individual handles situations differently, and for controversial media personality, Toke Makinwa, surviving her divorce was a strategic process.
While speaking to a fan who is newly divorced, Makinwa assured her of her happiness again.
The fan asked "How did you survive your divorce and she responded, saying "I took it one day at a time hun, had good days, bad days, the dark cloud won't last forever, I promise you'll smile again."
The fan again said "I'm going through the same. Feels like the end of the road for me"
"Awww tightest. It is a dark valley but what doesn't kill you will only wish it did cos you are reborn, you will rise from it all, I promise," Makinwa responded.
AllNews reports that Makinwa, on 15 January 2014, Makinwa tied the knot with her estranged husband Maje Ayida, whom she had been involved with for eight years.
In 2015, she separated from Ayida after discovering that he had impregnated his ex-girlfriend.
Makinwa, in the early hours of Friday, June 12, said she has dated herself for so long and being in a relationship while making sacrifices to accommodate anyone else scares her.
In a series of tweets, Makinwa said even though chatting can be cute at the beginning, she easily gets tired at some point and wish someone could date on her behalf.
“Been single so long that I like the idea of a relationship more than actually being in one, I am selfish with myself, I love my space, I like to move as I want, I love waking up sprawled out on my bed alone, the concept of “sacrificing” all these to “accommodate anyone scares me
“I know I like to “date” but when I’m actually asked out on a date I think of a million reasons to cancel, the thought of putting in effort turns me off, in my head it’s rosy, in real life…. It is a lot of work and I can’t be bothered, who else can relate?
“Chatting is cute in the beginning, at some point I get tired and lose interest, can someone date for me, like can I hire an assistant to go on all these dates, share my CV, see if we are fit for each other and close the deal, I just want to fast forward the process Rolling on the floor laughing hard.
“I think I know what the problem is, I have been in a relationship with myself for so long, dating myself and loving on me, I have become selfish, I’ll need to first break up with me but I like me, me works, me comes first, I don’t know how to undate myself. Whelp.